Monday, December 21, 2009

friendship can never be past

The phone rang.Thinking who will possibly be calling at this hour.The number seems very familiar.Her voice seems really different.It sounds as though she has been crying.I tried my best not to ask whether she was crying.She was just asking random question about our meet.Then she burst out the drama that happen few days ago.I stood there speechless. I knew such thing would happen to her but it never acquired in my mind that it will be this soon. She admitted she cried and knew partially it was her fault.It happen so fast that she could still remember the exact words that had ended her friendship with her special someone that matter's to her a lot. The kind of friendship that can be called past,present and future.Now it just remains as history. She told me what happened and she even read that special someone's blog to me. I couldn't believe it because the words that was written in that particular blog was true and i think she deserves to feel that way.We were still on the phone recapping what will happen.She said that it sounded so serious that it will be forever.She was worried and foolish over her action.She was asking ways in what shall she do.I was thinking hard and i had plenty of ideas but nothing seems reasonable. The only thing she could give that special someone now is just space and time for her to think.Im disappointed in both of them.I didn't really had the chance to talk to this special someone but i knew their friendship was strong and i was grateful and i respected them. Now they are not one anymore. I would say its both of their mistakes. The special someone should have known her character from the very beginning.That what kind of person she was that made her become her true friend.You cant tell her to change because that is her and you liked her for who she is.And you my friend you should have been more considerate and more caring towards her for she was always there for you.You should have been there for here as she would for you. Even though you had a new friend that cares for you.No one will care more than your friends.I did tell you before that this chaos would happen sooner or later.You were not precaution enough.So i would say its was both of you who ruin your friendship.I was proud of you but not im shattered away by your acts.Friendship can never be perfect but you have to give and take, not just cut the friendship chain off.Its how coward both of you are.I hope both of you would read this post and make a difference.You can never forget your past.....please think about it.

4 comments:

Melissa said...

hmm.. i wonder is that friend of yours making good use of every chance she's given..

La Vie said...

well for now she's given many chances.but this is life...chances would not always come..

Melissa said...

it'll be nice if you let her know chances wont always come.. or has your friend already gave up? i really like how you would write about this even though it doesn't really affect anything in your life..

La Vie said...

well last time she use to talk alot bout u n stuff n i think u guys hv a very special relationship.cause i hv a special fwen too. thts y i ws advising her n told her it ws her fault n urs too.she is movin on wth her life..it makes her sad cause u broke the relationship very easily after wht u guys been through before. the fun n joy...